Yes, don’t fake it… Fake what exactly? that relationship… don’t fake it. You know it ain’t going to work out, you know you guys are not compatible in any sense. Stop killing yourself inside. You know you’re suffering. The one time love affair has turn to slave affair. Why are you making it? Why do you pretend to the general public that all is well when it is not. You pretend to everyone that things are fine probably because you don’t know what they will say or think and you choose to go through pain.
No, you got to stop… you got to wake up now. Open your eyes and see what’s really happening.
… A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
It’s better to be single and be praying and preparing to get married than married and be praying to be single again. You need to get this straight… As much as the other person’s life is important, your life is important as well.
Break-ups hurt but sometimes it is needed if the relationship is leading to know where or if it’s causing unimaginable pain. You can’t keep absorbing the pain when there is no probability of change. If you keep doing that my friend… it’s terribly dangerous.
Many people loose their life because they fail to have the courage to take the rightful decision for their life. They choose to manage the pain and suffering and in the process they loose themselves. Sometimes it is not their lives they lost, sometimes it is their future.
… There is no point in wasting your resources, time and energy on a relationship that is dead. If it’s dead, it’s not coming back.
You got to see the bright side of life. Don’t cling to a closed door while a better one has been open for you. I know you’ve tried all you could and it hurts to see it not working out… I feel you…. but I don’t want you to sit down in self pity or try to pretend that all is well and let life pass you by.
Sometimes I wonder how someone can possibly choose to stay in pain, get married to it and also bring those lovely children into it. it doesn’t make any sense to me… I’m sure you can agree with me. You need to stand up for yourself and be strong. Take the right decision now and save your future. Don’t fake it anymore, stop pretending, drop your ego and face your life as it is.
… If the relationship can not be save anymore, save yourself.
You think about the pain that comes through break-ups… hmm, trust me… you don’t want to experience divorce. It is better to break up now if there is no future in the relationship than to divorce or separate from the person you get married to. It’s like hell on earth.
Don’t stay in a relationship out of pity saying… he’s gonna change… she’s gonna change… Listen, it’s dangerous. If your partner does not change now, there might not be any change if you get married. It’s your call… I hope you make the right call. I care.
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