Don’t fake it

Yes, don’t fake it… Fake what exactly? that relationship… don’t fake it. You know it ain’t going to work out, you know you guys are not compatible in any sense. Stop killing yourself inside. You know you’re suffering. The one time love affair has turn to slave affair. Why are you making it? Why do you pretend to the general public that all is well when it is not. You pretend to everyone that things are fine probably because you don’t know what they will say or think and you choose to go through pain.

No, you got to stop… you got to wake up now. Open your eyes and see what’s really happening.

… A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

It’s better to be single and be praying and preparing to get married than married and be praying to be single again. You need to get this straight… As much as the other person’s life is important, your life is important as well.

Break-ups hurt but sometimes it is needed if the relationship is leading to know where or if it’s causing unimaginable pain. You can’t keep absorbing the pain when there is no probability of change. If you keep doing that my friend… it’s terribly dangerous.

Many people loose their life because they fail to have the courage to take the rightful decision for their life. They choose to manage the pain and suffering and in the process they loose themselves. Sometimes it is not their lives they lost, sometimes it is their future.

… There is no point in wasting your resources, time and energy on a relationship that is dead. If it’s dead, it’s not coming back.

You got to see the bright side of life. Don’t cling to a closed door while a better one has been open for you. I know you’ve tried all you could and it hurts to see it not working out… I feel you…. but I don’t want you to sit down in self pity or try to pretend that all is well and let life pass you by.

Sometimes I wonder how someone can possibly choose to stay in pain, get married to it and also bring those lovely children into it. it doesn’t make any sense to me… I’m sure you can agree with me. You need to stand up for yourself and be strong. Take the right decision now and save your future. Don’t fake it anymore, stop pretending, drop your ego and face your life as it is.

If the relationship can not be save anymore, save yourself.

You think about the pain that comes through break-ups… hmm, trust me… you don’t want to experience divorce. It is better to break up now if there is no future in the relationship than to divorce or separate from the person you get married to. It’s like hell on earth.

Don’t stay in a relationship out of pity saying… he’s gonna change… she’s gonna change… Listen, it’s dangerous. If your partner does not change now, there might not be any change if you get married. It’s your call… I hope you make the right call. I care.

Thanks for your time. I’m glad to spend my time with you.

Leave your comments below.



Author: Rotimi Elijah

Rotimi Elijah likes to motivate and inspire people. He likes to be among happy people who loves unconditionally. He believes that love is the basis to true happiness.

57 thoughts on “Don’t fake it”

    1. Many people go back to their toxic relationships because they are afraid of what is out there. They are afraid the unknown. They think it’s better for them to stay than try out something new. These people should know that when the door of a relationship closes a new one open and the new one gives a new and better life.

      Thanks so much. I’m sorry my response came late.

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    2. I’ve been that person to keep going back… it was the most psychologically abusive relationship i’ve ever experienced… There really is a force making you want to believe in the lies…then you think about your investment and not wanting to let all that goo…

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  1. I love this post!! I know a couple people who are doing the exact things in this post. You spoke truth in this one and I agree 100%. There is no point in being miserable with someone just to say you have someone. Be single and find out what it is that you want first then you then you will find that person that you can do the give and take, compromising, and til death do you part.

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  2. People blindly believe that things are gonna change on a day even while they are quite sure that nothing is gonna change… or they are pretending to sacrifice their life for xyz reasons..I am not questioning their reasons, maybe they have some genuine cases.. but they must value their life too

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  3. true, I agree with you, although it’s not always black and white… this makes it difficult. But for sure – we cannot change anybody, waiting that someone will change is a lost of time and energy. On the other hand people can change – if they themselves want to do it.

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  4. Marvelous! @Rotimi Elijah
    (Donโ€™t cling to a closed door while a better one has been open for you.ย I know youโ€™ve tried all you could and it hurts to see it not working outโ€ฆ I feel youโ€ฆ. but I donโ€™t want you to sit down in self pity or try to pretend that all is well and let life pass you by)
    i could take this line as my daily motivation.#incredible work of your blog.

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  5. It’s rare for people to change for themselves, rarer still to change for another. Most will appear to change, it is usually only temporary. The temporary change is camouflage, to lure you in. Then, once you’ve fallen in, the camouflage is cast away, the truth is revealed. The ‘change’ was a lie. Keep your eyes open; take your time, never rush; what you see over time is a truer glimpse into a person, a clearer picture of the life you can expect…but, in truth, you only ever see or know about a person, what they allow. Good post, my friend!

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