Love can be so mysterious. The deeper you go in it, the more you discover things. Love can be understood by all, but yet few understand it. Love is revealed to all but yet few sees it. Now…. flow with me….. Love does not bring pain. Love is not designed to crush lives or make life miserable. The package of love does not include any form of hurt or unhappiness, yet you will see people that is in love or been love go through unimaginable pain, oppression, threat and all kinds of things that makes life unbearable to live.
… If you are giving love and not receiving it, you are in a wrong relationship. If you receiving love and not giving it, then you are taking advantage of the other person.
There is a pattern and principle to everything in life, once that is missing, the end goal cannot be guaranteed. One of the pattern and principle of love is that love is not always about the giver, it is more for the receiver. The logic is…. The giver gives love, the receiver takes the love and does the same thing. So a giver is also always a receiver.
… Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
In a simple word, love is not about only you, it’s also about the other person. That is how things can come to or come close to perfection. In your thoughts, actions and way of life, you put the other person into consideration. Some people think of themselves alone and yet want a perfect relationship or marriage…. It doesn’t happen by magic.
… Giving love is the highest pleasure. Receiving it back is the greatest treasure.
As a husband, put your wife first not yourself, as a wife put your husband first. As a father or mother, put your family first, not your selfish interest. As a spouse, put your partner first. Remember one tree can not make a forest. You need each other, we all need each other. Now…… when we do this, when everyone puts everyone into consideration, there will be little or no troubles to face. Love is fulfilled in this way. This is the mysteries some of us do not know. When we live in this pattern in our relationship and marriage… Life will be good and the future will be bright.
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