Yes, Failure is a key. This sounds like… Wow, really… What are you trying to say? Yeah, what I’m saying is… Failure is not what people think it is. Most people see failure from the wrong perspective. There are many keys to success and failure is just one of them.
… The difference between greatness and mediocrity is often how an individual views a mistake.
– Nelson Boswell
I’m not saying failure is good but I’m saying failure is not that bad and terrible thing many people see it to be. Failure is part of life and it is part of the stones or steps one needs to climb to success and greatness. Failure and defeat is not the same. Many people see failure as defeat, no it’s not. Failure is just a condition which can be change with consistency, determination, strategy and other positive attitude. Defeat on the other hand is surrender that it’s over. Defeat is a state of no hope.
… Failure is key to success, each mistakes teaches us something.
My failures in life makes me keep getting better, I choose not to run away from my failures, I accept them and learn many ways things could not work and work. There is no better life without mistakes or failure. The wrong way people see failure is one the most dangerous thing in the world. Seeing failure the wrong way leads to more death than the failure itself, death of life, career, business, destiny, purpose, relationship, marriage and many more.
Like I said, success has many keys such as hard work, determination, positivity and so on. Failure is also a key factor to success. Failure is always saying…
- Don’t give up
- Try again
- Keep trying
- You are almost there
- You are better now, you can still be the best.
But oftentimes instead of people seeing what Failure is saying they choose to see defeat. Failure is an eye opener. It is also a map that makes you discover the route to success. Many people today are suffering from seeing failure the wrong way.
… No one can hide from failure, one can just make good use of it.
I love what John Maxwell said about failure. He said, failing forward is key to success. He advice we should turn mistakes to stepping stones for success. And that’s just it.
Here is what I know, I know that… Every great and successful people’s stories in life entails there journey of failure over failure until they did it. Don’t accept it is over… No, there is more to your life than what has happened or what is happening.
Here is a few quotes and words from some great minds…
- “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.” ~ Samuel Beckett
- “Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.” ~ Confucius
- “Great success is built on failure, frustration, even catastrophy.” ~ Sumner Redstone
- “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot … and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. That is why I succeed.” ~ Michael Jordan
- “Failure provides the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.”~ Henry Ford
Do not be your own hindrance to success and greatness. Know what’s good for you. I know what’s good for me. When I fail, I see it as one step closer to success. I learn and get better. This things can be hard to accept but I will always say that… Nothing good comes easy, you’ve got to work at it.
I wish you all the very best in your relationship, career, businesses, family, marriage and in all you do.
Thanks.
Drop your comments below.
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are you saying that we should keep on pushing, untill something happen, if that is it then for how long?
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The whole point is to not see failure as a dead end as many views it to be. When one fail it’s not a dead end, as a matter of fact failure is a junction that opens new route of movement. Failure brings out new ideas and strategy and new way of attending to things.
You will discover that your so called success is an overtime of failure. Each time you fail and try again you get better at every re-try, and that eventually leads to success. Failure is an important part of success.
Doing something once and quitting because of setbacks or failure is the actual failure.
Did I answer well your question? Thanks Markus for your time.
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Yea you did, i agree with vou, when you failed you know better, but the issue there is some when they fail they”re contented with there failure.
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Yes Markus, that’s the problem with many people out there and that’s why we are addressing the issue. Thanks my friend. I’m sorry my response came late.
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My entire life, I have failed. When I changed my perspective to view my failures as learning lessons, did I start developing on a different level.
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Hmm… Awesome. That’s true and right. I’m glad to hear. Really appreciate your time and words. I’m so sorry my response came late.
My best regards
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Super encouraging! Itβs always good to remember that failure isnβt final, and that it is an event, not a person π
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Oh yeah Samantha…. That’s just it… You got it. Thanks for your time and words. I’m really sorry for responding late.
My best regards
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Of course, and no problem at all – I hope you keep writing!
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O yeahππ. Thanks a bunch
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Please read my first post
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Mind blowing post.
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Thanks so much, I’m glad to hear your thoughts. Really appreciate it.
My best regards and wishes
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Thank you so much
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ππππππππ Do enjoy the new week.
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Great perspective on failure.
And great collection of quotes.
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I’m glad to hear. Thanks so much for your words.
My best regards and wishes
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Reblogged this on John Barleycorn and commented:
Sometimes failure is our best teacher.
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Oh yes, I agree. Thanks so much John. I’m glad to hear your thoughts.
My best regards and wishes.
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reassuring…
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Yes Geet. Thanks so much for your time and words.
My best regards and wishes
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most welcome…thanks…to you too…
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Good observations, Rotimi. One of the amazing books I’m reading right now, The Geography of Genius by Eric Weiner, has a part where the author suggests instead of the normal museum, where we see famous artist’s and writers words of grandeur and success, we see a “museum of mistakes” for as W. H. Auden says, “In the course of his lifetime, the major poet will write more bad poems than the minor.” The author makes a statement I agree wholeheartedly with, in response to W.H. Auden’s quote, “There’s a simple reason for this. The more shots you get at the target, the more likely you’ll eventually score a bull’s eye, but the more misses you’ll accrue as well. The bull’s eyes end up in museums and on library shelves , not the misses. Which when you think about it is a shame. It feeds the myth that geniuses get it right the first time, tht they don’t make mistakes, when in fact, they make more mistakes than the rest of us.” So, really, if we want to be a success at anything, we’ve got to fail a whole lot on our way to betterment.
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Oh Hannah, oh… You are totally on point my dear friend. Awesome. There’s no success without failure. You said it just right. In the process of failure we discover new things, ideas, ways to make things better that each time we try again, we get better until we get there.
I’m glad to hear your words Hannah. My best regards and wishes. Much love
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That is such a great comment.
It deserves to be a blog post in itself.
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Oh yes, you are absolutely right. It’s insightful. Thanks so much. I’m so sorry my response came late.
My best regards
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I could work on that! Haha π
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I am enjoying reading your posts. You have lots of wisdom to share.
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Thanks so much, I’m glad to hear your thoughts. Really appreciate your time and words.
My best regards and wishes.
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Thank you. Carry on.
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Yes Lisa… I’m Sorry my response came late.
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So right on! Without failures, we can’t learn, nor improve, nor succeed. π
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That’s right my friend. So right. Thanks a bunch. I’m glad to hear your words. Do enjoy the rest of the day.
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You too, have a great rest of the day.
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Yes. Thanks. Enjoy the week my friend
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Awesome post, I wrote about failure recently as well.
https://bottomlesscoffee007.com/2018/06/03/personal-failure/
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That’s great, will check it out right away. Thanks for your time and words. Really appreciate it.
My best regards and wishes
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Failure is my friend. Without failure how would I know I need to begin again.
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Failure teaches us a lot. It makes us better. Thanks for your words my friend. Really appreciate it.
My best regards and wishes
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Inspirational indeed
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I’m glad to hear. Thanks dear friend.
My best regards and wishes
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A wonderfully uplifting post π Thank you for sharing βΊ
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I’m glad to hear Atara… Thanks for your time and words.
My best regards and wishes
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Without failure, we really won’t be able to enjoy success. There is significance stemming from failures; there is always much to learn when we trip, because that new knowledge is what helps us get up and walk again.
Thank you for this post!
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Oh yes my friend. You are absolutely correct. Really appreciate your time and words. I’m glad
My best regards and wishes
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Success gives us Excitement and Energy and Failure gives us Maturity , with that Maturity on hand, any one can count Success !! Just my view on Failure π Nice Write up Rotimi ! Keep it up !
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Oh yeah… Your view carries lot of sense my friend. I love the word Failure gives us Maturity. That’s exactly what it does but instead for some people to grow into the maturity and get better they grow into anger, self pity and other negative feelings.
Great addition. Really appreciate your time and words. My best regards
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Failure is must to know the value of success..because failure teaches us many things which we can’t learn by ourselves…I completely agree failure is sure a key to success..nice post..
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Oh yes, thanks Anju, your words are true and right. Failure surely teaches us many things. Thanks so much for your time and words. I’m glad.
My best regards and wishes
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my pleasure..friend..
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Lovely post dear, failure is a spectrum to us all if you look at it from the worse point you will get nowere if you look at it from the best point it’s no big deal, ” failure is gust one more way that doesn’t work tomorrow we’ll try something new ” I don’t know who said it but it’s a great quote on failure, something I try to keep in the back of my mind. β€οΈβοΈ
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Oh yeah, you got it right… Perspective matters a lot. And about that quote, it’s absolutely correct. I’m glad to hear your thoughts. Really appreciate your time and words. Thanks so much.
My best regards and wishes
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Very thoughtful post. I loved it.
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Thanks Rekha. I’m so glad for your thought. Do have a great day.
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Thanks, Happy Sunday!!!!
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Yes, Happy Sunday. Enjoy the day.
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Great post! I follow Dr. John Maxwell too. If you don’t already and you would like to, google “A Minute with Maxwell” it is free daily.
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Wow… That’s awesome, thanks so much for your time and words and also for the tip. Really appreciate it.
Do enjoy the rest of the day. My best regards
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Lovely and insightful… Great job.
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Yeah, thanks dear Eunice. Check your mail.
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I will
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Failure is a better teacher than successπ€
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Hmm…. Insightful and true. Thanks for your time and words. Really appreciate it.
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My pleasureπ
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π I always thought that once we get over falling down, getting back up will get easier. My favorite saying is βFailure is inevitable; giving up is unforgivable.ββJoe Bidenβs mother Jean told him that. I cry one day and the next, I start all over again. Donβt know why, I just do.
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Hmm…. Insightful. Great thoughts. I’m glad to hear. Thanks so much for your time and words.
My best regards
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‘Failure’…very well explained! Also the comparison you did between failure and defeat. A message worth spreading!
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Thanks so much. Your words mean a lot. I’m glad to hear your thoughts. Really appreciate it.
Do enjoy the rest of the weekend. My best regards
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You are welcome βΊοΈ You too have a wonderful day
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πβΊπππ Enjoy
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I even believe people who give me a hard time are there to show where I need to improve.
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Hmm…. Very powerful attribute… That way of living leads to greatness for sure. I admire that. Thanks so much for your time and words.
My best regards and wishes
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I agree with your post
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I’m glad to hear your thoughts… Thanks so much my friend.
My best regards and wishes
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So important is failure – giving second chances…
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Thanks so much. I really appreciate your time and words.
My best regards
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always look forward to your presence and thoughts.
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I’m glad to hear. Thanksπππ
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This is such an inspiring post. Lately I feel like life is out to get me and it makes me want to never leave my bed, but I canβt let it affect me. Iβve gotta rise above it all and be strong. π
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Oh yes, that’s the spirit…. You can’t let it affect you my friend. You’ve got rise and stay strong. Yes… Yes. At the end of every dark tunnel, there is a light… After every rain there’s always a clear sky and sunshine.
Keep up the high spirit my friend… And always remember failure is a step to success. Thanks so much for your time and words. I appreciate it.
My best regards and wishes
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Wonderful post Rotimi!! Itβs so true failure is a stepping stone to success! π
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Thanks so much Kranti. Yes it is. I’m glad to hear your words.
My best regards.
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Great post Rotimi! Youβre absolutely right, failure is a part of life. You wonβt know when youβve succeeded until youβve been through failures.
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Oh yeah, you are correct my friend. Thanks for your time and words. I’m glad to hear your thoughts.
My best regards and wishes.
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Thank you! Likewise, hope youβre doing well.
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Yes I am doing fine, thanks a bunch my friend. How is you and family?
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Weβre doing good. The school going kids begin school tomorrow, itβs their first day of school. πππ½ thank you asking Rotimi!
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Oh…that’s so sweet. I’m glad to hear. I wish the very best as they start their school life. Lemme see them when they are ready to go tomorrow πππ here is my email, send their cute pictures…
elimusik1@gmail.com
Thanks my friend
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Wow! This has so many good points Rotimi! Failing is necessary for there to be any success. Failing is not something to be ashamed of at all. You learn from your failures. I loved this!
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You are absolutely correct…. Your words are just on point. I’m glad to hear your thoughts. Thanks so much
My best regards
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This is such an important topic to write about and I’m so glad you did!
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I’m so glad to hear your words My friend. Really appreciate your time and words.
My best regards and wishes. Thanks
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Wow! I’m so blessed by this insightful post on failure! Thank you so much!
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I’m glad to hear your words Vivian. It’s a blessing to know you are inspired. Thanks for your time.
My best regards and wishes.
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Thanks for sharing… perhaps what we may view as failure is not failure but simply not having enough knowledge to deal with something at that moment…. π
βAny piece of knowledge I acquire today has a value at this moment exactly proportioned to my skill to deal with it. Tomorrow, when I know more, I will recall that piece of knowledge and use it better. β Mark van Doren
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Hmm…. Oh yes. I agree with you. Absolutely true. Thanks so much for your time and great words. Really appreciate it.
My best regards and wishes. Do enjoy the rest of the weekend.
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You have a great weekend also!.. π
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Well penned & good buildup ππππ
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Thanks so much Nirant…. I’m so glad to hear your thoughts.
Do enjoy the weekend. My best regards
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Yupppp dawg utoo enjoy in full swing
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You too.ππππβΊ
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Nice write up..π
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Thanks so much… Really appreciate your time and words.
My best regards
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Well written Rotimi. Most times we see failure as a very bad state of life, but with consistency like you said, failure is a state that can be changed as it is a stepping stone towards achieving success.
Thanks for sharing…. Its inspiring ππ
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Yes Dear. Perspective makes the difference. Like it is said… Successful people see opportunities in every difficulties.
Failure is always a step closer to the goal. Thanks dear. Do enjoy the weekend.
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Sure thing….have a blissful weekend
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You too. πβΊπ
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