Give Up or Stay

Sometimes it’s good to know when things are truly dead. As much as I believe in fighting for what you believe in, sometimes letting go is the only way forward.

… Some people are so stiff-necked that they don’t want to learn, improve, get better or give concern about others but themselves… Flee from them.

When you have gotten to the stage whereby there is no more positive signs, when things are been subtracted from you often, when your care and concern doesn’t mean a thing again… Its time to move.

I don’t advice divorce but will someone stay in a marriage that will kill him or her? Many people have gone to the grave too soon in life because of marriages and relationships that suck life out of them.

… When someone have a wrong attitude towards life, struggle in relationship is certain.

We don’t have a double or triple life. We are not in a video game where one can have a second or third chance to life. It’s just once and if we live it right, once is enough. It’s important to know when to give up if things are at the point of no return. Don’t suffer for nothing. Don’t accept the pain and says that’s how life want it. No, the ball is in your court.

If things are not as bad, then it’s time to sit down with your spouse and communicate about how to proceed. You guys don’t want to waste a lifetime on having issues every now and then. If things can be resolve, then I advice stay. No one knows the truth about your inner life, relationship or marriage like you do. So take responsibility.

… Always remember that without mutual understanding, no relationship can work.

Today marks one year I started this blog. I am so glad for such a wonderful people I have met so far. You all are family and I can’t trade you guys for anything in the world.

Happy one year Anniversary to Realtimelove – Inspire me. I love you all.

Drop your comments below.

Author: Rotimi Elijah

Rotimi Elijah likes to motivate and inspire people. He likes to be among happy people who loves unconditionally. He believes that love is the basis to true happiness.

97 thoughts on “Give Up or Stay”

  1. I’m missing your writings! You encourage me to continue to translate to Yoruba Language. I’m thinking of doing that and continue forever no matter how stressful it’s going to be. I want to read from you or are you trying to monetize your site by starting another one? I wish you well Mr Rotimi Elijah.

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  2. Congratulations on the anniversary.
    Nice advice on relationships. It breaks my heart to see people fighting and hurting themselves and each other over things that can be approached more effectively. Emotions seems to get in the way of this thought process

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    1. That’s the point… You are right. Sometimes it’s best to just accept that a new life is calling because the old is long gone.

      Thanks so much for your great words. Really appreciate it. My best regards

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    1. I’m glad to hear. Thank you so much dear friend. You are right about many people holding on to toxic or dead relationship this days, they don’t realize that they are loosing more by the day and if care is not taking, they might loose their life too.

      Really appreciate your time and words. My best regards and wishes


  3. I believe marriage is truly “until death do you part,” so I can’t agree with you on leaving a spouse. Even if the relationship is dead and you are in pain: God didn’t put us here to live for ourselves. And, God has raised the dead before; He can do it again.
    Good advice for those BEFORE getting married, though! 😊

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    1. Indeed you are right Kathy… People yet to get married will benefit more from this and I know God can do extraordinary things to bring lost and dead things back to life. This can happen when the frequency of the relationship or marriage is connected to God. Thanks so much.

      My best regards

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    1. Yeah. Sometimes some relationships are meant to grow us and make us more mature and also prepare us for the right one. Holding on to it will only make one loose the real relationship.

      Thanks so much for your time and words. Really appreciate it. My best regards

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  4. You have touched a subject of much revelation today. Coexistence with the couple is not easy. It makes us reflect on our role in daily life and that makes your blog something special. Congratulations for that anniversary and for sure it will grow in quality and form. Good for you.

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  5. Thanks for sharing!!… πŸ™‚

    β€œThere are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.” Nancy Stephan

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    1. Oh Krishna… Thanks so much for your wonderful wishes… I’m so glad my friend. Thanks for your inspiring comment.πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘β€.

      Do enjoy the rest of the day.

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