Give Up or Stay

Sometimes it’s good to know when things are truly dead. As much as I believe in fighting for what you believe in, sometimes letting go is the only way forward.

… Some people are so stiff-necked that they don’t want to learn, improve, get better or give concern about others but themselves… Flee from them.

When you have gotten to the stage whereby there is no more positive signs, when things are been subtracted from you often, when your care and concern doesn’t mean a thing again… Its time to move.

I don’t advice divorce but will someone stay in a marriage that will kill him or her? Many people have gone to the grave too soon in life because of marriages and relationships that suck life out of them.

… When someone have a wrong attitude towards life, struggle in relationship is certain.

We don’t have a double or triple life. We are not in a video game where one can have a second or third chance to life. It’s just once and if we live it right, once is enough. It’s important to know when to give up if things are at the point of no return. Don’t suffer for nothing. Don’t accept the pain and says that’s how life want it. No, the ball is in your court.

If things are not as bad, then it’s time to sit down with your spouse and communicate about how to proceed. You guys don’t want to waste a lifetime on having issues every now and then. If things can be resolve, then I advice stay. No one knows the truth about your inner life, relationship or marriage like you do. So take responsibility.

… Always remember that without mutual understanding, no relationship can work.

Today marks one year I started this blog. I am so glad for such a wonderful people I have met so far. You all are family and I can’t trade you guys for anything in the world.

Happy one year Anniversary to Realtimelove – Inspire me. I love you all.

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