The Pay Day

Life is like human, a sincere and honest human. It has eyes, it sees your deeds, and all you do is stored up for a pay day. Nothing goes unattended to in life. Your good is not forgotten, reward will definitely come.

… To be doing good deeds is man’s most glorious task.

Our planet earth is always in circles. Nothing stay permanent, each season is for a time. You have been doing good and it looks like you are not getting any good, don’t get tired, your season for good is just around the corner.

No matter how small the good you are doing is, there’s a reward for it and the same goes for doing bad. There is a pay for every action, it might come early or late but certainly the pay will come.

I have been seeing people get paid for their deed in life both good and bad. What I discovered is that the reward comes in a way that most people don’t expect. I am inspired to write this because of my experience in one the meeting I attended couple of weeks back….

In that meeting, there are people who are known to have a big heart and love to do good, they are faithful, some of them are living big and some are living low. And also there are people in that meeting who does things by face not by heart, they act like they are faithful but at heart they are not. Now this is how things turn out….

A speaker was invited from the outside to speak. This speaker knows no one among the audience. Then he asked all the children to come to the stage to sit, he told them he will be asking questions as he is speaking to the audience, so they should listen carefully. Now this is what amazed everyone…..

Each questions the speaker asked based on what he was speaking on, he gave a million naira(Nigerian currency) to any child that got it right… Wow… He asked about nine questions and each nine children that got it right was given a million naira each. One child got 3 million for answering a star question. About 3 children got 500,000 naira each. Altogether, the children that got something was 13 in number out of 95 children on the stage.

… One of the best way to live is to do good to others and yourself.

This is where I’m going…. Those money was given to their parents. I discovered that the people that got blessed are actually those that have one way or the other being doing good. Right there and then I know there is a pay day and it will come when you least expect it. Your own reward might not be money, it might be something else.

… Don’t do good because you want reward, do it because it’s the right thing to do.

There’s an amount of good each man can do according to our capacity, don’t keep it to yourself. You loose more by not being good to others. No one knows when the pay day will come. One thing is certain, all the good a man does is not forgotten and the same goes the bad. There is a pay for everything.

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My Timeline – Your Timeline

Timeline, we all have our timeline in this life. What is timeline…? A timeline is a display of a list of events in chronological order. It also means a schedule of activities or event, also a timetable. We all are sharing this world but we don’t share the same map and timetable.

Too many people are not living on their own timeline but others. This is one overlooked area which is affecting a lot of people. Everything we want in life is embedded in each of our timeline. So, when a man choose to live or follow someone else timeline where he has no entitlement, he’ll begin to struggle in life.

We all have a purpose for being here, we have different capacity, different destinies. We all are unique in our own different ways. No one should compare himself or herself with another. Our speed is different, our style is not the same.

… You can aspire to be a better person but not another person.

A lot of things causes people to live a wrong life and part of those things are…

  • Timidity
  • Fear
  • Low Self-esteem
  • Inability to discover oneself
  • Peer pressure, among others.

There are many reasons why people choose to live someone else life and not theirs and doing this only brings struggle and pain. For example…

You are a business student and your timetable shows you will do Financial accounting and Economics to be who you are supposed to be in life and then, you left your class because of one funny reason you only know into a science class where the timetable indicate chemistry and physics and you choose to be a part… You will struggle, get frustrated, maybe give up along the way because it’s not who you are.

… The source of many people’s problem across the world today is living the life that is not theirs.

When a car runs beyond its ability, a crash is most certain. It’s like racing a Ferrari with a Toyota Camry, both are good cars but with different strengths. If a Camry tries to cruise like the Ferrari, I don’t know…it’s going to be a bad experience.

Don’t look at the other person fast pace life, that’s how it is in their timeline. For the fact that someone went ahead of you does not mean you won’t get there too. You have your own timeline. Some people are destined to be millionaire in their twenties, some in their thirties, forties or fifties. Trying to live like the other person will only bring struggle and troubles, it can also bring death. There is greatness in all of our timeline, but in different styles and time. Stay focus.

Some people are meant to be musician but they are a banker, some are supposed to be a lawyer but they are marketer, some a politician but they are meant to be a comedian. I’m just saying… This is why people struggle too much in their life. This is why things seems to be out of control. You are not meant to be anybody but you. Not every vehicle uses petrol/gasoline some uses diesel to function. If you mix them wrong, nothing will function.

…To function well, you need to be you. To be original, you need to be you. The best person you can ever be is you.

Your timeline is different from mine but one thing is assured, if we stay on track and focus, greatness is there for us all.

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Failure is a key

Yes, Failure is a key. This sounds like… Wow, really… What are you trying to say? Yeah, what I’m saying is… Failure is not what people think it is. Most people see failure from the wrong perspective. There are many keys to success and failure is just one of them.

… The difference between greatness and mediocrity is often how an individual views a mistake.
– Nelson Boswell

I’m not saying failure is good but I’m saying failure is not that bad and terrible thing many people see it to be. Failure is part of life and it is part of the stones or steps one needs to climb to success and greatness. Failure and defeat is not the same. Many people see failure as defeat, no it’s not. Failure is just a condition which can be change with consistency, determination, strategy and other positive attitude. Defeat on the other hand is surrender that it’s over. Defeat is a state of no hope.

… Failure is key to success, each mistakes teaches us something.

My failures in life makes me keep getting better, I choose not to run away from my failures, I accept them and learn many ways things could not work and work. There is no better life without mistakes or failure. The wrong way people see failure is one the most dangerous thing in the world. Seeing failure the wrong way leads to more death than the failure itself, death of life, career, business, destiny, purpose, relationship, marriage and many more.

Like I said, success has many keys such as hard work, determination, positivity and so on. Failure is also a key factor to success. Failure is always saying…

  • Don’t give up
  • Try again
  • Keep trying
  • You are almost there
  • You are better now, you can still be the best.

But oftentimes instead of people seeing what Failure is saying they choose to see defeat. Failure is an eye opener. It is also a map that makes you discover the route to success. Many people today are suffering from seeing failure the wrong way.

… No one can hide from failure, one can just make good use of it.

I love what John Maxwell said about failure. He said, failing forward is key to success. He advice we should turn mistakes to stepping stones for success. And that’s just it.

Here is what I know, I know that… Every great and successful people’s stories in life entails there journey of failure over failure until they did it. Don’t accept it is over… No, there is more to your life than what has happened or what is happening.

Here is a few quotes and words from some great minds…

  • “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.” ~ Samuel Beckett
  • “Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.” ~ Confucius
  • “Great success is built on failure, frustration, even catastrophy.” ~ Sumner Redstone
  • “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot … and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. That is why I succeed.” ~ Michael Jordan
  • “Failure provides the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.”~ Henry Ford

Do not be your own hindrance to success and greatness. Know what’s good for you. I know what’s good for me. When I fail, I see it as one step closer to success. I learn and get better. This things can be hard to accept but I will always say that… Nothing good comes easy, you’ve got to work at it.

I wish you all the very best in your relationship, career, businesses, family, marriage and in all you do.


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Marriage and Purpose

Marriage is a beautiful thing, and also a thing of joy. It is the beginning of a new stage in one’s life. When people talk about marriage, they talk about how lovely and wonderful it is. As true as that may sound, marriage can also be the beginning of the end. That sounds harsh right… Yeah I know.

… One of the worst mistake in life is to marry the wrong person.

Marriage has made some people great in life. Through getting married, some found the true path to their greatness. Also, through getting married, some have lost it for life. Marriage has change the course of some to the wrong side. All this I took my time to discover and I ask myself, how can something so good also be so bad…? Through series of reasoning and thinking, I found out that… Marriage is forever good but wrong choices lead people to wrong life in marriage.

Before marriage everyone has a life. They have both long term and short term goals, many have discovered their purpose in life and are working towards it, many are even living their purpose already before going into marriage. Now… Marriage is not created to pull all of those down or throw them in the trash, it is actually meant to edify and make it better.

… The best person you can marry is your friend, better still your best friend.

But the truth is, with all the effort towards life purpose, goals and a bright future ahead, once some people get into marriage it all fly out the window, things start falling apart, the purpose will seem lost, some of the goals and aspirations are forgotten, instead of a bright future, things will look dull. All this is inevitable once one make a bad choice. Once you marry the wrong person, your life is over. This is one big issue affecting more than half of the world.

No one can journey through life alone, there is always a time you will need someone. But when choosing that someone, make sure you choose someone who shares or ready to support your dream. Choose someone who you can relate with on everything, someone you can plan with and share life together.

… Your best can never be enough for the wrong partner.

This is very important to your life. If you want to get to your destination fast, you must take this serious. Positive combine with negative will only give you negative. There are people with great potentials, visions and dreams that are now living below expectations because they married the wrong person. Except if you don’t want to get married, but if you do, this is a serious business for you. Your life purpose and marriage is link together. The link can push you forward or backward.

Effects of wrong choice of partner in marriage includes…

  • Divorce/separation
  • Frustration/depression
  • Sadness/pain
  • Reoccurring anger/bitterness
  • Loss of interest in life
  • Bad health
  • Career degradation/loss of job
  • Wrong lifestyle
  • Suicide/death e.t.c

No one will be faced with things like this and still manage to think or work towards any life purpose except for a miracle. Right partner gives right marriage and that gives right life and greatness.

Your life needs you to choose right. When you choose right, you choose life.

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Self discipline – A bridge to Greatness

At the heart of any successful person, is self-discipline. Whether it’s success in their personal lives or their professional lives, self-discipline is key to success in everything. There is a price to everything in life and self-discipline is one big price that will get you what you want.

Theodore Roosevelt once said, “With self- discipline most anything is possible.” Jim Rohn claimed “Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.” And Robert Kiyosaki asserted that “Confidence comes from discipline and training.”

Self-discipline can likened to a bag package needed to go on a trip. In that bag, everything needed for the trip will be there. Self-discipline carries essential things we need to succeed in life. In our love relationship, personal relationships with people, business or career, goals and desires, self-discipline is the bridge to success.

Self-discipline is what makes you do right instead of wrong, it’s what makes you stand firm even when there are lots of temptations. Inside self-discipline there is hard work, commitment, determination, endurance, self-control, respect, honesty and many more life changing attributes.

If self-discipline is lacking in ones life, motivations and inspirations can be useless. Self-discipline fuels your energy to act on the inspiration you receive. When you have a goal to achieve, you will know that there are things to be done to get to the goal. Many at times we let go on goals that would have make us great in life because we feel tired, lazy or lost. When there is self-discipline, it fuels you to keep going until you achieve your dreams.

… I think self-discipline is something, it’s like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets. – Daniel Goldstein

Like I use to say, nothing good comes easy and for every great life, there is a great challenge. So, self-discipline is a key player in all this. Right from the beginning of the world there have been people who through self-discipline enjoy the best out of life. In our world today, many are living their dream because of self-discipline. To be great, you must have the will to be.

Successful people in every field are often said to be “blessed with talent” or even just lucky. But the truth is, many worked harder than the average person can even imagine. From athletes like Michael Jordan, also Cristiano Ronaldo to executives like Howard Schultz, these people are known for waking up early and working toward a goal while other people are still in bed, and staying later than everyone else too.

All this might not sound new but as old as it is, it’s still taking people to greater heights in life. I will make it as simple as this… Get self-discipline, get greatness.

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Be Conscious of it

Hello beautiful people, it’s time to be more conscious of it… Conscious of what exactly… Conscious of what we want out of life. All of the aspirations, plans, goals, blessings, greatness, good health, wealth, and every other things we want from life.

Here is how it works… Living in the consciousness of what you desire in life keeps you on track towards it. When you are conscious of what you want in life, it keeps you in expectant mode and also increases your capacity to receive. It keeps you focus and also add a passion and determination to drive towards your goals.

… If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place – Lao Tzu

A lot of people miss out on too many good things because they are not living in awareness of getting this things. Those who want success, think success and work towards success are the ones that get it. Our mind is a powerful instrument, it can be use for good and bad, it can attract positivity and also negativity. Many people out there are imprisoned in their own mind. Whatever you allowed in the consciousness of your mind get attracted to you. It works like magic.

… A negative mind will never give you a positive life.

Those who are successful, those who are great and those that are living a fulfilled life are always conscious of their state of mind. When others sees difficulties they see opportunities, when others are saying there’s no way out, they are thinking there’s always a way and are working towards getting one. We all are a product of our thoughts. Whatever it is you can think, you can achieve. It all start with conceiving it in the heart and keeping it in your mind.

You need to believe in yourself and also believe that you can achieve those desires, you can get those things you want. You need to always keep them in your consciousness that you can be great and you will be great. Your destiny is in your hand. No man is born to serve the other but a lot of things change in the course of life sometimes through ignorance, laziness, negligence or lack of faith.

You are not too young to live your dream, you are not too old to achieve your dream. Check out Famous people who achieve success later in life. It’s never too late or too early to live the great life you want. You can still get that house, buy that car. You can still get married and have children even. You can still start that business. You can be who you want, It all start from how you perceive things. Channel your mind in the right way. Live in the consciousness of who you are meant to be.

Discover yourself, know why you are, give it what it takes, stay focus, be conscious of the greatness in you. You are a champion, live the life of a champion. Here are some of my articles that will help you stay on track…

Greatness is in you, to live it, be conscious of it.

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#8. Do More than Work, Excel.

Yes, you’ve got to do more than work. If you want to leave your mark on this planet earth, you must not only work, you’ve got to excel in whatever profession or career or business you find yourself.

Check through your line of work, you will discover that there are some people who are not just doing the work but also excelling in it.

To work is to do something that involves physical or mental effort especially for money or because of a need instead of for pleasure : labor or cause to labor to get something. There is no pleasure, many don’t like what they do, how can you excel in doing what you don’t like?

But on the other hand… To excel is be exceptionally good at or proficient in an activity or subject. You will only be good in something when you like it. And if you like it, there will definitely be passion to drive you and keep you going. Stop working only to meet your daily living or pay your bills only. It will keep you at a distance to your greatness. You need to start thinking of excelling in what you do.

… You were created to excel. There is no limit to how high you can go in life. Keep stretching to the next level. – Joel Osteen.

Create passion and zeal for what you do. Think more of tomorrow than today. Greatness is at your door step, don’t let it go.

… If you plan to excel in big things, you have to develop the habit in the small ones.

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#7. Do More than Think, Create.

Thinking is a good exercise that help us reach to ourselves, it help us to go deep into ourselves and find treasures. But many don’t know that if they can think, they can create, so they keep thinking and thinking with nothing to show for the thoughts, they await a miracle to make their dreams happen.

Like I said in my previous post, nothing happens by magic. Thinking is the process of considering or reasoning about something, to have a particular belief or idea, to use one’s mind actively to form connected ideas. Now… What is the use of an idea or plan if they can’t come into execution. Most people are not living to their full potential because they only dream they don’t act.

… Knowledge that can not be given out is a waste.

To soar in life, there must be execution of thoughts. There is no limit to what a man can do. I believe 200 years ago, it is an impossible thing for man to fly not to talk of going to the space. But today is a normal thing. Some people got the idea through thinking, put it into works and created the unimaginable.

When you contribute significantly to life, life will definitely smile on you. Trust me, Rome is not built in a day. Every invention that was created started with just a mere thoughts, just like how you have been thinking. But what makes the inventors different from us is that, they develop the will to keep pushing even though it seems not possible, they never waits or back out, in their failure, they kept on trying until it is done. The Wright brothers are a great example of people who choose not to think only but also create.

Many people are afraid to fail… But listen to this…

… Failure is part of success. Failing is not the problem, staying a failure is the tragedy.

You will never know how far and fast you can go in life if you don’t start. Leave your comfort zone, you have been thinking, keep thinking but also start creating…. The world await you.

Thanks friends. Glad to have you here.

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29 Things to do more in Life. #1. Do More than Exist, Live

There is a big difference between existing and living. Some people exist but they are not living. The successful people do more than existing, they live. You and I have one life to live, there is no spare. We should make it count.

Don’t be ordinary, be extraordinary. The ordinary people stay on the ordinary lane. On that lane little to nothing happens there. But the extraordinary people cruise on the extra mile lane, they do more than exist, they live and that makes them successful in all they do. You have some of these extraordinary people as friends, colleagues, neighbors or relatives.

… Each one of us are meant for greatness and to unleash the greatness we should do more than exist, we should live.

You create your own destiny. You paint your own rainbow of joy. You sing your own song of hope. You walk your own path of freedom. Live and live life to the fullest.

This daily dose will run through the month of February… It’s inspiring and life changing. Thanks for your time.

Next is #2 for February 2nd.

Look Ahead and Stay Positive

When there is life, there is hope. The past is gone, the present is here and the future is ahead. What you’ve done in the past creates the present and what you’re doing in the present will create the future. Nothing happens by magic. There is an old saying that says… “As you lay your bed, so you lie on it”. Life is all about preparation. You can’t prepare enough, you’ve got to keep preparing everyday, week, month and year. Everything in life needs preparation.

  • To get married, to get a good job, to start a business of your own, to have a good home, to run for the presidency…. etc.

All needs preparation. You can’t afford to hold on to your past my friend. You can’t let the past rob you of your present and future. You might not like what your present look like… Yes, but I believe you will hate it more if your future look the same.

Yes, there are pot holes in life, these pot holes are things that shake you, they are trials of life. When they happen, you’ve got to keep looking ahead and be positive. Looking back often put you in more trouble and sometimes others get in that trouble with you.

… Take for example, Someone driving a bus full of people and suddenly he got into a pot hole and instead of looking ahead, he kept looking back trying to figure out what happened, what was that… He got distracted, his view was not on the forward anymore but backward and before you know it… He found himself hanged between two big trees or fall off from the bridge into the river. He got himself into trouble and others as well.

Like I said, looking back put you into more trouble and sometimes others suffer it too.

You might like or not like the year as it turned out… but what I believe is that, your tomorrow will be greater than today if you will keep looking ahead and stay positive. No matter what you face or see, No matter what comes your way, No matter how you cry, one thing is certain if you keep looking ahead and be positive… Your tomorrow will be greater than today. I can say this because it worked for me, and it has worked for millions of people.

… Be strong, focus, look ahead, be positive, say good things & think good things. 2018 will be great for you.

You’ve got to clear your mind of doubts, failure and negativity. You’re on your way to greatness already. Your life, relationship, marriage, career and family will all turn out better. Just look ahead and be positive.

Compliments of the season to you all.

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